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He says he sings it to her every year, but usually not in person. Dear Carolyn: My husband is uncomfortable with our 20-year-old white son dating a black woman.
Luis writes that “the more interracial couples feel comfortable out in the world, the better chances we have of building a world defined by our common humanity rather than our race:” When I mentioned this article to my wife, she asked if I was going to comment on it. Now, I certainly haven’t done any scientific study or compared reactions in different neighborhoods, and one couple is a very small sample size, but I have to say that when we visit New York it’s a totally different vibe.That’s the old I’m-not-a-racist-but-everyone-else-is dodge. I mean, you’ve had over 20 years with the guy; I find it hard to believe there’s been no indication this was coming.At the same time, though, one’s own children and their choices can test our beliefs with a force that little else can. You have to do better than “because they are” if you want him to do better than “uncomfortable feelings.” Ask him how he’d feel if a woman’s parents saw your son as an inferior match for their daughter based on his skin color alone.One dating expert said “If you are a black woman on and you’re not going to initiate contact then you are not going to date.That’s just the reality.”To get any response at all, black women have to reach out roughly 1.5 times the amount of any other group — and they are still the group that’s the least responded to.